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After watching the first session of General Conference at the request of my parents these videos were a breath of fresh air. I believe that sex is a sacred thing to be enjoyed by a husband and wife alone, and pornography turns it into a game, and causes you to hunger for something that is not good. The church tells them they are horrible because of them.
Real, practical, significant insight and help vs mindless brainwashing and emotional programing. My biggest problem with pornography really has little to do with the sexual aspect of it. But that doesn’t mean its not worth, and that doesn’t mean its not true. And it destroys them, UNLESS they can realize that it doesn’t have to be that way.
I have heard that the morman’s are lettind gay’s into their churches. It can be an act of comfort, or a way to change the focus, or an act of aggression against self or others. If you control a persons sexuality you control the person. They manufacture the sin, they know everybody does it so they make all members a sinner.
Imagine feeling anger towards abandonment of your mother who couldn’t help but die, guilt because of your anger, and self hatred and hope in the practice of impulsive behavior. Why would there be a ‘father’ in heaven who would condemn self exploration, or an expression of pain, or a path or journey of learning? They tell you that you need the church to be forgiven to go to heaven.
Salvation cannot be achieved by one’s works, how well or bad someone does. Florin It might be a beginning to accept yourself as a sexual human being, instead of judging yourself.
And even though at times we fail, we come short, God can forgive us, and we shouldn’t loose hope. But Grace now leads to righteousness/holiness and results in eternal life. Chemical castration can cause cancer, and I don’t think you deserve that.
You might want to journal what your thoughts are before and after, and just practice self love, in the privacy of your own home. So now they got you and can control you into submission. It is a common tactic with cults in controlling their members.
The reality is you can obsess about it, feel guilty and confess. As a humanist, I think sin, at it’s core, is when you treat objects like people, and people like objects.
21 What benefit did you reap at that time from the things you are now ashamed of? 22 But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life.Additional resources on the topic of Mormonism and sexuality: Pornography, Masturbation, Sex and Marriage in Mormonism (This is a Mormon Stories Podcast featuring a non-Mormon sex therapist) Part 1 and Part 2 Female Sexuality in the LDS Culture (This is a Mormon Expression Podcast) Short articles on Mormon Sexuality 50 page Research Paper (PDF) Historical Development of New Masturbation Attitudes in Mormon Culture Please let us know if you come across any other links you would like to see added here on this page!There are a lot of really good points and insights in these videos.Remember, we have victory in Christ, and no matter what you do, that doesn’t change God’s unconditional love for you.It’s a little funny, but after I talked few months ago with Mormons about the concept of grace, and how they have to be perfect so that grace is sufficient, or a verse from BOM says that “we are saved by grace after all we can do” I now know better how much grace means to me, and how impossible would it be to save myself through my works.